It’s not you, it’s me……….oh how we hate that detachment line. Please allow me to elucidate, illuminate and
pontificate (sorry I don’t know it I was possessed by Don King, Jesse Jackson
or Johnny Cochran) ….let me explain the reality of that and the flip
version “it’s not me it’s you”
People we have to stop looking at those lines as a negative.
I’ve heard both and in my immaturity I would often get angry or depressed at
the prospects of what next or I’ve been dumped….but then I learned to put all
that bull---t and baggage in perspective.
It’s not me, it’s you” : To this I say thank you….I may have
needed help to see that we are incompatible and my stubborn pride is keeping me
locked in something that is toxic and will eventually kill me.
To this I say thank you because I failed to see some
character defects in me that made someone so wrong for me become
appealing.
To this I say thank you because I have to examine all the
ways that I failed to love and nurture myself.
Reality : you can put your left shoe on you right foot and
walk but you will never be comfortable and you will never work the “shoe” to its
fullest potential.
“it’s not you, it’s me”
Absolutely it’s me. I’ve learned to stop trying to make a
silk purse out of a sows ear.
Absolutely it’s me. I’ve learned not to prolong or feed into
dysfunction.
Absolutely it’s me. I know my purpose and power tripping,
mental castration, life draining negativity and verbal abuse are not foundation
building materials.
Absolutely it’s me…purpose and determination comes in knowing
that love is reciprocal; it ebbs and flows and you must know when to lead and
when to follow.
Absolutely it’s me….purpose comes when you refuse to accept
rudeness for strength and power.
Absolutely it’s me….when you learn to recognize that someone
who attempts to control resources is abusive….(give me my keys, I make more
money so I get to say how it’s spent, get out of my car…sound familiar?)
Fall in love with you!!!!
How ya livin'?
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